I'm goin' out with this boy, but he lives in London, which is far away from me
unless I take a train to see him... but the problem is, we love each over so
much, and I just can't get round to tellin' ma mum 'bout him, I'm afraid she'll
stop me from seein' him 'coz he's so far away.. but I don't want to lose him, he
loves me, treats me right, respects me, he's the same age as me but I can't tell
my mum. I could tell my auntie, as she would understand I love him, but my mum
needs to know. please help, I'm stuck, I want to spend the rest of my future
with this boy, he feels the same, we're a perfect match, but ... i'm just afraid
my mum will make me lose him :'( I hope you contact me asap, thank you
iiyaa i know what your goin frew , i went out with a boy in yr 3 til yr 6 and since then we have stil loved eachother but jus dint say but now i have moved away we told eachother coz we realised how much we loved one another, i fink you should tell your mum coz she would be understandin and she cant rele get suspicious of you gettin u to aythin with him coz he lives far away , if yoou loved eachother soo much you wouldnt let anything stand in your way
Posted by summer, on 08/11/2008 at 17:32
Heya xox
I know all this must be hard , and you shouldnt be made to feel as if you cant tell your mum about your boyfriend. really tell her that you love him and tell her that you know its going somewhere. if its something worth fighting for , why not fight?
Posted by Becky, on 06/28/2008 at 17:05
hi, long distance relationships will kill you!! just try to move on and if u love him that much fight to see him! april xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by april warren, on 06/18/2008 at 04:41
hey.... if you and your mum have a good relationship then she will understand everything but if it is hard to talk to her then talk to your auntie who can then talk to your mum...good luck chloe.x.x.x
Posted by chloe, on 06/18/2008 at 04:07
hey !! we think your situation is very difficult. It would be hard not to see your boy but we think your mum will understand. Your mum was young too a long time ago , and maybe she'd got a problem like yours. One of us had a problem like this : I didn't want to tell all my problems to my mum, but you'll feel better than before, i promise you :) And maybe your mum will take you to London one weekend or somethink else. have luck, and don't worry ;) all the best for you and your boy , love lisa and dörthe from germany.
Posted by Lisa and Dörthe, on 02/29/2008 at 06:17
I resently broke up with someone living approx 3k miles away, (in california) and we lasted 6 months, I generally find myself better with long distance, u can be more individual and not judge by skin deep beauty. Long distances do work, I should know.
Yours Froggy xx
Posted by Froggy, on 02/25/2008 at 19:56
hi. Me and my ex lived abt 2 hours drive from each other and although we have broken up now we are still very very close. when we were toegtther i was so scared of tellin my mum as i didnt want her to be angary with me, so i kept it a secret for abt 3 months. eventualy i picked up the nerve to tell her and she laughed at me and in a joking voice said 'do you think im stupid, i knew you were together the only thing i dont know is his name' I just laughed as i realised all my mum wants for me is to be happy and this will be the same with yours. if he makes you happy then this will show and your mum will probley have an idea anyway, if you want to make it work your mum will need to know sooner or later and the longer you leave it the harder it gets.
hope it all goes well
Posted by Rebecca, on 02/07/2008 at 06:05
hi ya girl, you havent siad whether you and your mum have a good relationship or not i.The same thing happened to me i was living at home and the only way i had contact with my boyfriend was phone and email he used to live 2 and half hours away so we didnt see each other for ages we couldnt bare it.me and my mum couldnt really talk we found it hard, after 3 months of me talking to him i knew there was something special and knew enough i love him i then told her.im sure if your mum can see how happy you are then im sure she shouldnt be unhappy with you im 18 im now living with him after a year and a half being together and things are really looking up.My mum told me and him wouldnt last but they have in fact my family know im so happy and in love they are already saying wedding bells on the way scary and crazy but so true parents do say its pathetic and rediculous coz of your age but you prove them it only matters what you feel they say things like that or go mad for aday coz there little girl is growing up they ll get used to it once they know thats what you want.
Posted by kim, on 01/03/2008 at 06:49
i understand wat ur feeling i have a long distance bf, who lives 3 hours away from me. its really tricky trying to meet up with him. but we both love each other loads! and our relasionship has lasted 7 months. i did tell my mum. and it turned out to be a massive bonus. to start with she wasn't keen. but understands my feelings and now over holidays he is allowed to come stay the weekend and vis versa. she also helps me sort out train times etc as i am hopeless with these things. if you get on well with your mum i would advise you to tell her. she will understand, after all she was a teenager herself. =] good luck to you! XxX
