I used to be a self harmer

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Hi there!

So did i many years ago, i found a way of getting rid of those feelings of wanting to hurt myself. I realized that i was not to blame for other peoples feelings in the family although often told it was my fault. You must remember this and know that when you are feeling bad if you have been told off etc! try and leave the room and pick a note book up and write all your hurt in it and anger, paint a picture or put ear phones on and dance. Then wish away the hurt leave it where it came from it is not you. DO NOT keep any sharp objects in your room that is temptation replace Them with a paint brush and pen and book. You can do it let the hurt go and love yourself so that you can forgive the person who has made you feel hurt.

Posted by jules, on 07/16/2008 at 17:42

dont worry my sister used to be a self harmer...
but with he right advice you can get over it...
if you just sit down with some one and talk about how you feel eve if its just a friend or wright it down in a letter and give it to a relative to read then it may be easier for them to understand...
just to let you know people can get over self harming..
with the correct help and advice

Posted by stacie, on 06/17/2008 at 05:42

hey i used to b a self harmer but i havent done it in over a year from i met my boyfriend he has hepled me alot wb xox

Posted by danielle, whose homepage is here on 05/02/2008 at 14:49

well done for asking for help

you shouldn't be ashamed. true, its not a great thing, but you shouldn't be ashamed of turning to something you know.

you're mother obviously didn't notice the importance of what you were saying to her, but if you make her see thats its important you to, it should be important to her.

ive been where you are now. im not perfect, but im much better.
i realized, if my friends/parents loved me, they would never ignore or belittle what i was doing.
theres no guarantee you'll never do it again, but having someone (if only just to sit with in silence) helps get you through the ruff patch til you can see past all the hurt. and makes you all closer for it.

Posted by Billie May, on 02/04/2008 at 19:33

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