hey xx
It's not just about who you love, its about who loves you aswell, who spends the most time with you? Whio calls you the most? who has good conversations with you? then ask yourself who youd rather be with. You may think that A does loving things for you but maybe thats because he likes you as a best friend, and best friends love each other so you my be confusing the types of love. If you love J then theer should be no room for anyone else. If your even considerin sum1 else then you obviously dont love j enough.
gd lukk xx