My agony Aunt, health, wealth, relationships  
 
 
Main Menu
Home
Agony Aunt Letters
Books and Information
Relationships
Health
Money
Resources
Contact The Agony Aunt
Search
Links
friends
Smurfs
Sports
Arthritis Advice
Dating Advice for Men
Perfect Wedding
Sell Your House Quickly
Health Advice
 
i'm in love with someone that has a girlfriend PDF Print E-mail
Written by Agony Aunt   
i'm 20 and in love with someone that has a girlfriend. When he is alone he is fine with me we talk and have a little fun and also flirt a lot. Just a few weeks ago we slept together, i didn't see him till 2 weeks later and he was fine with me.
But when i saw him a few days ago in the pub he was with his girlfrind and he totally blanked me out, he didn't say a word to me and he left within 10mins of me being there. This is so unlike him he always stays till the pub shuts. I was really upset with him and the way he left without saying anything to me.

The thing is with him is that his girlfriend has got him under the thumb, what ever she says he dose. He always gives me a hug but if she is around he wont hug me coz she don't like it, he waits till she aint around.

Show (3) - Add comments:

Comments

okay...
well everybody often falls in love with some one that has a girlfriend, many people have done it before...
at the end of the day he is only using you because obviously he does not love you like hes probably said he does...
but at the same time you have to seeit from his point of view sometimes guys can find it very difficult to get rid of someone or maybe its just that he doesnt want to maybe he loves her and was just using you...
the best thing you can do is just talk to him, but do it face to face not over the fone that is the worst thing you could possibly do because when your on the fone you can hang up but face to face you cant...

Posted by stacie, on 06/18/2008 at 04:24

I think the above comment says it all. Sadly this man is using you and you are allowing yourself to be used. Where is your self-respect? How would you feel if he were cheating on you with another girl as he now cheats on his girl with you? Do you honestly think he'd be faithful to you if he plays around on this girl? Do you expect her to be happy when she finds her boyfriend cheating on her with you?

Even if she really is a controller; it's up to him to have courage& leave her for himself not for you. It's not an option for him to treat both her and you with disrespect. You are also acting badly to this woman has not done anything to you that would incur such behaviour.

Posted by Lisa, on 04/03/2008 at 01:46

Girlfriend, if he'll do it with you he'll do it to you.This guy wants to have the best of two worlds,if he did'nt want to be with that girl he would have left already.This is actually not about him!!!You need to find your self worth and redefine what you want in life. You are good enough to have a man who is going to respectand love you and only you,you can find a guy who is going to give you as many hugs as you want anywhere you want them. Honestly he is playing you and you need to love yourself enough to say I DESERVE BETTER!!!!!

Posted by eugenia, on 01/03/2008 at 02:30
 1 
Page 1 of 1 ( 3 Comments )
©2006 MosCom
Add comments: i'm in love with someone that has a...

Enter your comment below:

(required)

(required)

Your email will not be displayed on the site; only to our administrator.

(optional)




< Prev   Next >
[ Back ]
 
 
 
up
Template design by Dragon Company - Copyright my Agony Aunt 2005
up