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I hope you can help me Agony Aunt.
I am falling for my mate, he has been my best mate for over 2 years and recently i have been developing feelings for him.
 I don't want to tell him as he is seeing someone else and i feel it would get in the way plus it would spoil our friendship.
What am i meant to do? I am to scared to tell him because it might turn awkward between us
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hey im in that but i say just ask he may feel the same for you.in fact try check the girls his sister first he might have to show her round town if it isnt his sis he might now even like the girl hes seeing right now but he dont know how to dump her. if i dont work out still keep the friendship strong :)

Posted by georgia, whose homepage is here on 08/29/2008 at 12:56

To falling.
i know how you feel as i have bin in this situation before, i am going to give you the same advice that got me through my problem. If you really like this boy then dont be afraid to show it, follow your heart. Remember no-one but you can make this decision. Goodluck Xx.
*-Bek-*[/b][b]

Posted by Rebekah, on 08/28/2008 at 07:07

same for me as well. one of my other friends told him so he asked me out and told me he liked me as well. but then on IM he got confused over something I said and he though I said I didn't like him anymore. Now he won't even talk to me and says that he doesn't care at all about me. Can anyone help me?

Posted by Unhappy, on 07/08/2008 at 07:47

dear falling,
there is nothing you can do but follow your heart,
it will tell you what to do and which way to go.
no one an make this decision for you.
its all about the way you feel.
good luck,
april-xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Posted by april warren, on 06/18/2008 at 04:32

I am in the exact same position as you! I've always been pretty good friends with this one guy and we've been on the verge of going out quite a few times. But now hes got a girlfriend and ive only just realised my feelings for him. He is a really good mate and i dont want to ruin his chances of happiness with his new girlfriend but i feel really close to him atm and i dont know what to do...x

Posted by Lip, on 05/19/2008 at 13:01

I fell for my best friend and then i asked him out and it turned out great I am still going out with him now so find out if he likes u the same way and if not just try to forget about it if he does give it ago but promise each other u'll still be mates if u break up!

Posted by Kerry, on 03/18/2008 at 08:46

dont jeopardise your friendship.
because friendship is so important
wait for a moment when you are alone together and ask him how he feels.
be impulsive and maybe u will get an unexpected surprise.
but dont be derogatory towards his girlfriend, just tell him that you've startd to like him in a way a little more than friendship. but dont put him in a difficult position and perhaps just tell him to think about it.
good luck :) x

Posted by fran, on 01/26/2008 at 12:14

My boyfriend, R, had this with his best friend, A, when they were thirteen. And they started to date. They even lost their virginity to each other. Then it ended when they were fifteen. But R and A stayed friends and ended up going out again when they were sixteen until they were seventeen. I met R at University were we're both in our first year and A's studying where R and A come from. And they're still friends. So at least you know that if everything doesn't work out you can still be friends.

Posted by Anneka, on 01/24/2008 at 15:01

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