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I no longer know my place is in my family

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i fill really done .my best friend moved in nearly an year ago (long story ) , she later developed anxiety and was very ill with it.
My grandad moved in this year . my gran died early on this year and my sister who 28 is really ill down south . i feel im being pushed at the family .
I no longer know my place is inthe family . my family have classed her as one of there own and got her xmas present as well.but i fill lost i dont get my place any more . it real hard . i fill she the daughter my mums wants and that im in the way .
If something goes wrong at school i have to look after her . i get question by my mum . i fill im to blame if she have downer . i cant talk to anyone because i fill selfish or get told im over reacting by my mates.
my life seem to be round everyone else . i got no part . when she does something well she get huge praise . when i do something well it just an well done keep you mouth shut . i cant tell my mum because she thinks im being selfish . please please help

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hi
I know this must be so hard for you, i carnt imagine i think the best thing to do is maybe try and confide in other member of your family im sure others have been affected maybe your dad or siblings. Its definatly best to confide in someone and then you could approch you mum with someback up, i do think it's best if you approch your mum and explain nit how it is otherwise you may end up in the same situation as your friend which will be really hard on your mum if things aren't pretty bad already.
hope this helps

Posted by anon, on 07/08/2008 at 11:28

hey xx
im 15, female and I read your letter, I just thought that maybe you should confront your mum and tell her how you feel and confront your mate aswell, mums never try to push there children away intentionally, she probably doesnt realize it she's probab;y trying to make her feel at home as she is not really your blood. Atleast if you tell your mate and your mum they will be more aware and ypu should see a difference.

love rajnesh

Posted by rajnesh khaira, on 04/16/2008 at 18:52

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