I go to a girls school and there is a boy I really like at the boys school that
we share discos and stuff with. The problem is, he already hangs with other
girls that I don't know that well and I'm scared to approach them all. One girl
who knows did give me his number and I text him a few times but now everyone is
teasing me. He gets my bus but I don't think he really knows who I am, and I
REALLY like him. There is another problem - my best friend does too and she's so
much prettier than me.
Lads aren't that scared of rejection, when I asked someone out and was rejected I was only scared of the prospect of our friendship going away, or of people finding out, so DO NOT let either of those happen. Dont worry if you're nervous, most boys find that kinda cute, so get to know him better and when you're alone make your move =).If your friend gets there first, that just means he doesn't like you in that way, otherwise he'd of rejected your mate, so if that does happen, saves you asking him out.com
Posted by lol, on 08/12/2008 at 04:00
i know exactly what you mean becoz am going thru the same thing at the m moment but if there is one thing i have learnt is that follow your heart, tell him how you feel he might feel the same, and remember boys are scared of rejection so mabe thats the reason he is hesistating. and as for your best friend, dont assume he will find her attractive, let him be the judge of that, also its not all about looks, boys like girls that are confident and real, be your self, if he doesnt except it then itz h9is loss
Posted by bridget, on 07/01/2008 at 08:54
Smile at him and make eye contact. Try saying 'hi' casually as you pass him by in the hall and let him take it from there.
You might be his best type and not your friend. You don't know till you try. But you must give it time and let it be a friendship; don't rush it. You're only young and these are just experiences till you mature and meet the one for you.
Posted by Lisa, on 05/29/2008 at 02:49
i kinda no wot u mean coz i go 2 a girls school aswell, and there is a boy that i like hu goes 2 a mixed skwl hu also hangs abwt wiv other girls i dont no, we have spoke b4 so i kinda no him, and he hangs around with a boy i no so i could easily approtch him, but i dont want to, not that i am scared or anything bcoz he is really popular in his school and im not so i kinda think well why wuld he like me?? so i totally no wot ur goin thru, but i think u shuld txt him telling him hu u r so he doesnt think ur sum1 else, and get 2 no him moree and then it will be easier to approach him on the bus or wotever and u 2 can bcome friends and mayb more, and as 4 ur friend i think u shuld discuss it with her, tell her that u like him and talk about it so u avoid any arguments. hope i have helped gudd luck :D xxxxxxx
Posted by ******, on 05/01/2008 at 12:56
there is a boy I really like that goes to the same school as wt i do and we are quiet close friends n i recently told him i realy like him wen i fell out with him coz he had a gf and lied to me.but he z to me he has dumped his gf coz it didnt feel right so i dont no if he finished her coz he has feelin for me and thats y it didnt feel right. and i havnt mensioned out abut how i feel abut him but i am really confussed i duno if he fancies me. he comes round to my house a few times a week and we hav a laugh. we either watch a film or go on commy or play on mi game constole and some times i see him lookin at me and smile and then i smile back. im really confussed i need help
Posted by rach, on 02/01/2008 at 15:18
Tis a tough cookie is this one... If I were you, I would text him, tell him who you are, casually mention that you both get on the same bus. If your brave enough sit near him on the bus so you can have a casual chat with him, get to know each other a little more. As for your best friend talk to her about it, tell her that you like him, you'd be suprised once she knows you like the same guy you both can have fun chats together about him. But if this is not the case and she becomes upset or angry about it tell her that you like him but your not willing to jepordise your friendship with her and I'd try and move on from him. There are plenty more fish in the sea :) Who cares if shes more prettier than you? Everyones pretty in their own ways, and you never know you might just be the pretty your crush is looking for. I think my friends are prettier than me, but there are guys that find me more prettier than my friends. You have nothing to worry about looks wise. As for the girls who are teasing you for texting him try to ignore them, theyre just jealous that you have a nice guy at the other end of the phone :) I hope everything works out for you :) Never give up!
Posted by Annelise Burman, on 01/08/2008 at 16:56
right this is a tought one but you really need to relax, text him and tell him that u get on his bus and tell him hu u r so he will notice you, ask your friend if it ok if you go 4 him and if its not ok with her then drop it and make a promise that none of u will go for him not even if he likes her or likes you, friendship is better than boys and anyway u will meet someone new, this is like that with me, my best friend gets all the boys and is much prettier, gets you down doesnt it! :( x
