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He flirts, what does it mean? PDF Print E-mail
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i am 14 and i really like this guy
we have known each other for about 2 years
and in that time we have both liked each other on and off
most of the time we liked each other at the same time and have almost started dating
but whenever we are that close i back out at the last minute and decide i dont like him
i feel bad beacuse i hurt him and i know i still like him
we are friends and we flirt alot
i really like him and want to be with him but everytime i get the same feeling and i hate it


what do i do ?
im afarid if i dont make up my mind soon he will move on
Comments

I'm a 14 yr old boy and, to be honest, I don't know why I'm on this site, but you shouldn't hide how you feel. Flirting can mean a lot, as I can not, at all, stop myself from flirting when talking to girls, but that doesn't mean I don't like them either, although you did say you know he does like him. Tell him how you feel and I'm sure you're thinking 'Easier said than done.' and, yes, it is. It will cause an awkward moment and will be much worse for you than him, but then he'll have to respond someway, because it's impossible not to do anything. Mystery is the worst part of any relationship. He HAS to know how you feel or he is going to be in the same situation as you. Tell him you're not sure, but you want to try anyway, because you do like him. Go for it!

Posted by Ryan, on 08/15/2008 at 15:51

It seems he likes you but yr not sure how you feel. It's not good to hurt somebody& you obviously feel bad. So tell him yr unsure about yr feelings; ask him to give you time to figure it out.

Then give yourself time to know how you feel. If yr still unsure, try dating him till you know how you feel. Dating doesn't mean you have to go any further; it's just a chance to get to know him better. If it doesn't work out, you can always go back to being just friends. Be honest with him& don't stay quiet- as he would get fed up and move on.

Posted by Lisa, on 05/14/2008 at 05:26

You may share your feelings with him directly as you
are both very good friends. He will understand what
you are getting through. Maybe you will be lovers
one day

Posted by INDIANA, on 03/16/2008 at 23:02

it cud mean that he lyks u, bt den again he cud b doin it 4 a dare???
u can neva know

Posted by ------------, on 02/29/2008 at 08:14

LOOK BABES WHAT U GOTTA THINK ABWT IS DO U ACTUALLY LIKE THIS BOY LOOK I SHUDNT SAY THIS BUT IM A 15 YEAR OLD GIRL AND I WENT OUT WITH MY EX FOR A YEAR AND A HALF AND I RERALISED HE WAS MY 1ST LOVE WE BROKE UP AND IT ENDED BUT I SEE HIM EVERYDAY AT SCHOOL AND ALL HE DOES IS FLIRT BUT WHAT U GOTTA DO IS NOT GET WORRIED SEE WHAT HAPPENES. LIFES AN ADVENTURE

Posted by Chanel, on 02/15/2008 at 03:29

hmmm this is kinda difficult...you've got to think it out. coz sometimes people tend cover up their feelings as if they aren't there.You've got to decide whether you like him or not and stick to that...coz if you keep changing your mind he will probably just get fed up.Another good idea is to try and talk to him about how you feel coz thats probably gonna help both of you.Well whatever you decide to do...hope it turns out for the best.

Posted by cherry, on 01/17/2008 at 14:49

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