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i cant bring myself to tell my parents PDF Print E-mail
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im 16, and i have a 20 year old boyfriend, i know him really well.
 i met him two years ago. and i do really like him, but i cant bring myself to tell my parents.
 im a bit embarrassed too. not of him, of talking about any boy with my parents. help me me please. what should i do to overcome this,
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Just tell yr mom quietly how you feel; that you like him and he treats you well and is respectful. If she's willing to meet him, then bring him to the house.

If your parents are very strict and there's no way they'd allow this relationship, then you'd have to wait till yr 18 to do what you want. For the time being, keep yr relationship non-sexual so you don't mess up yr life.

Posted by Lisa, on 05/14/2008 at 05:18

Hey. i think a good thing to do would be to talk to one parent first, individually. maybe your mum? she might understand a boyfriend problem better. But it doesnt have to be a bit deal, you could just drop it in.
or you could build up to it slowly.
you could start talking about this guy, and drop his name into conversation, and if anyone mentions it, you can tell them. make it fun, a joke out of it. but, always be honest about his age.
if you think your parents might overreact about his age then i think you should definately talk to them seperately, and tell them how well you know him, and how hes always treated you well and with respect.

Posted by Ashleigh, on 04/02/2008 at 11:52

I think it's quite risky dating an older guy. I'm 16 and I've only done it once but from experience the age gap made us too different. Of course, if it's going fine then I don't see anything wrong about it :) If your parents don't approve then just don't bring him round the house haha!
Good luck.

Posted by Viki, on 03/22/2008 at 10:51

dont worry bout it if yooh like this boy it yuur life nd yooh gotta make the most of it. if they tell yooh yooh cant see him anymore just say sumfink like but why i get on well wiv him i trust him nd i wont do anyfink stupid. see wat they say yooh shuld be able to trust yuur parents tell them most things nd they'll be able to trust yooh. love ya....x

Posted by shaz, on 02/16/2008 at 17:24

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