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I feel he is taking advantage of me PDF Print E-mail
Written by Agony Aunt   
Dear Agony Aunt,
Where to start... I have liked a boy for quite a while now but its become complicated. He had a girlfriend whom whilst dating I told him my feelings for him as he was displaying signs of likeness toward me by extreme flirting and it gave me the notion that he just may like me too. However as weeks went by we became closer and closer but he was still dating his girlfriend.
Then we began to have cyber s*x, and I felt like in a sense he was taking advantage of me like I was his piece of meat on the side, but I was crazy about him and this carried on for a few months. I then went on holiday and during my absence a friend of mine decided that it would be fun to spread a rumor about me and him, to which his girlfriend heard and he and her split up. I guess the whole point of this is that I'm crazy about it him still, I havn't felt like this for anyone before, but I don't know if I'm making the right choice.
I don't know if its just me but it almost seems as if he isn't intrested in me anymore. I don't know if thats true or not but it seems that way. I don't know if I should wait for him, see if anything becomes of us or if I should just move on. Help me :(

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its easy for me to tell you to move on but its harder for you to do it, my advise to you would be, think. think about what you wantand how it will effect you in life, if you claim to realy like him then talk to him am sure he cant read your mind, however when talking to him be careful in what u say, certain things might make him think ur vunerable, talk to him find out what he wants and if its not you then u can go from there. be brave because this feelong doestnt come often . (love)xxxxxxxxx

Posted by bridget, on 06/25/2008 at 08:43

He was probably using you for cyber sex& excitement since that's how you feel (always go with yr instincts, yr gut feeling).

If this boy were interested, he would have pursued you. He's not, so put him out of yr mind- and live yr life till you find somebody better.

Posted by Lisa, on 05/14/2008 at 05:14

aww im in the exact some postion as you! its well scary

but i no exactly what your going through! its not nice i no that but what im going to do is move on get some1 else this shows the boy ya not a play thing, and he gonna think o crap shes moving on i gotta make a decision othawise if you stay single and he knows you like him he will play you along!!

x

Posted by Emma, on 02/09/2008 at 10:23

Been there, done that and sweetheart I've also got the tshirt.

The best advice I can give you is to delete his email address and just say hello and make polite conversation if you have to when you see him. Eventually the gossip will die down and you'll have left the idiot behind.

I'm in a really happy relationship now so don't be afraid its put you off boys either.

Posted by Anneka, on 01/24/2008 at 14:54

i think you'll always have an issue with trust with this guy as he does seem to have played you along for a long time and maybe he's one of these guys who just enjoys the excitement and it'd be a shame for you to get hurt along the way. don't let a guy treat you badly just because you find it exciting. by all means if you and him grow closer then maybe there is a chance for you both but just be careful you dont deserve to get hurt x

Posted by vicky, on 01/18/2008 at 21:30
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